By Christine Akiteng I first noticed this phenomenon in my own life. For months, no one seemed to even notice me but as soon as I meet a guy I really like, from no where all the others start popping out of the woodworks. Men begging for my phone number, secret lovers sending me flowers and stuff like that. All the time I am wondering where were you all these months? Working with a number of single men and women over a period of time, many have reported that the moment they found someone else, they became attractive to many others. One of my clients wrote to me asking what have you done with me? I told him Nothing. Thats just the way love is? But what exactly is happening? The African people have a saying sexual energy desires sexual energy and is attracted to itself. And this is how it works. When we are alone and looking for love we are in a state of longing described as a lack seeking completion. But it is stranger than that. It is the desire for union with anothers sexual energy. Something inside of us (sexual energy) wants to unite with something outside of us (anothers sexual energy). But it gets more interesting. When we fall in love we are engulfed with an aura of sexual energy. This aura of sexual energy sexualizes not just us but everything else within its magnetic field. Such that whoever comes within our sexual auras magnetic field gets their own sexual energy (which is a longing within them) activated, and sometimes their sexual energy gets tangled with our own causing them to be sexually attracted to us. Its a little mind boggling. But this where the African saying sexual energy desires sexual energy and is attracted to itself gets even more interesting: These people are not necessarily attracted to us they are attracted to our sexual energy. Our sexual energy activates their sexual energy. As a dating coach this is how I use this wisdom to help others. 1. First of all you have to activate your own sexual energy. The simplest way is to fall in love with yourself. And voila! You are radiating sexual energy 2. Get yourself into the proximity of others who have their sexual energy activated. Best places are where love seems to abound like engagement parties and weddings, etc. Or ask a friend who is obviously in love to set you up on a double date. That way when your friends sexual energy sexualizes everything in its immediate energy field you and the other double date will be included. Anything can happen. But did I also mention there is a catch. Your sexual energy has to be directed to a particular person and that persons sexual energy has to be pointed towards you for sexual attraction to happen. This is where a healthy knowledge and appreciation of the art of seduction comes in. The art of seduction can be used as a vehicle for playfully drawing out the other person into acting (directing their sexual energy towards you) to create an exclusive emotional bond that is otherwise extremely rare. Its also important to remember that attraction at this level may not last long unless there are other stable aspects necessary for a lasting bond like intellectual and emotional attraction. About the Author: Christine Akiteng, Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach and author of ebook: The Art Of Seducing Out Of Fullness is internationally renowned for her UNIQUE and genuinely insightful outlook to what love is really about, what is there to learn about who we really are and what we can expect from our sexual relations. Her very powerful and practical "Fullness Approach" to dating and relationships and strong emphasis on "you don't need to attract many men/Women, just the RIGHT ONE" has helped many single men and women develop greater capacity to attract the RIGHT man or woman and create fulfilling relationships... Christine's websites: http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com and http://www.theartofseducingoutoffullness.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Christine_Akiteng http://EzineArticles.com/?Why-You-Fall-In-Love-With-Those-Who-Already-Have-Someone-Else&id=396249 prescription medications ultram check
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